Well I thought I'd update this one... Like Thursday/Friday my wife was REALLY trying to "work things out" but at the end of each night she was demanding I dump my g/f and make a bunch of changes to myself and I was just like FU I'm having fun... Still with the same girl thats a nurse... I'm with her every day. She's fallen for me and will do anything for me now and doesn't demand anything from me. Basically I'm in a position where I know the wife will be around for a while but I'm just happier without her. When given the choice between being with the wife and being with my g/f it's seriously an easy answer.