Thank You for all your help so far.

I have managed to get into the programs to turn some of them off, but mainly they all become non responsive before I can find what to turn off. I managed to download the ''WinPFind'' should I do that now or get that ''StartupControl Panel'' first? ALso I couldn't find Bearshare anywhere, I looked in Add/Remove and it was nowhere, I looked in my Program files and it wasn't there. I tried to search for it but my computer became stopped responding everytime I tried to search for it.