Sugien wrote:
> "Rhonda Lea Kirk" <rhondalea@gmail.com> wrote in message
> news:5vh439F1ldcomU1@mid.individual.net...
>> TheApostle wrote:
>>> This post, Rhonda Lea Kirk <rhondalea@gmail.com>
>>> Message-ID:<<5vfrkmF1mba5cU3@mid.individual.net>>
>>> may be monitored for quality assurance:
>>>>
>>>>> Here he is again manipulating Rhonda. ****, Les leave the poor
>>>>> girl alone.
>>>>
>>>> I'm doin' okay here, 4Q, and I continue to call you a friend.
>>>>
>>>> I'm not very happy about being used this way, i.e., as a tool to
>>>> chip away at a friend,
>>>
>>> I'm sorry you feel that you are being used that way.
>>>
>>> I've never implied that should should be used, nor have I done
>>> anything which would imply that I am using you for such a tool. I'm
>>> simply shining a light on, Paul and his mental defects. If anything
>>> it is Paul who is using _you_ to achieve his goals and false
>>> victories.
>>
>> He has *never* used me in that way. I consider him a friend and
>> ally, and he has certainly been both to me.
>>
>>> Sometimes the truth is a hard thing to swallow 'cause
>>> the people we call "friends" are the persons involved.
>>>
>>> I'm sure as a reasonable person you would question why anyone would
>>> be any kind of friend with, say Dustin, considering the antics
>>> you've stated that he has disaplyed, right?
>>
>> For many years, Dustin took sadistic pleasure in hurting people.
>>
>> 4Q can point you to posts wherein Dustin brags of doing harm, as
>> well as voices his hate for humanity, generally. I would do it, but
>> it's too much work right now.
>>
>> Dustin claims to have reformed, but he continues to do harmful
>> things--a good example is the post he made to alt.sex about me.
>>
>> 4Q trolls. And people bite, even knowing he's trolling. It may not be
>> sweetness and light, but he's not doing anyone any real life harm
>> the way Dustin has done/continues to do.
>>
> hmmm, although 4Q apologized, I would think his verbal attacks
> against my wife and children would be considered mental harm. Sometime
> in the future one our grandchildren may come across his
> verbal attacks in Usenet archives and it may also cause our
> grandchildren mental anguish. Likewise although my real name and
> address was posted on the internet not long after the internet first
> started (I used it in my sig line; because I was naive) it was fairly
> well hidden by years of no one seeing it. 4Q however took it upon
> himself to re-post it along with my telephone number. Your friend
> Paul gets his kicks by attacking others. Maybe it is just me; but I
> would say that *anyone* that gets their jollies by *trying* to put
> others down, has a mental problem, or they think so little of their
> self that they have to try and make others seem lower then they are
> to make himself look better.

I'd say your history here is not one I'd care to take upon myself to
untangle.

I guess we're all innocent in our own eyes.

--
Rhonda Lea Kirk
nimue@databasix.com

Miller's Law: In order to understand what another
person is saying, you must assume that it is true
and try to imagine what it could be true of.