Lionel <usenet@imagenoir.com> Thou roguish cogging companion. Thou
sheep-biting lying'st knave in christendom. Ye stammered:

> On Fri, 20 Apr 2007 10:55:36 -0400, "Rhonda Lea Kirk"
> <rhondalea@gmail.com> wrote:
> [...]
>>>> I don't want to die. That's why I didn't protest any of the times
>>>> you ended the relationship. But I loved you, and I couldn't say no
>>>> to you, so every time you came back, I let you.
>>>>
>>>> At the very least, this has ensured that I will not be subjected to
>>>> that again.
>>>
>>> Bingo.
>>
>> It'll never be that I don't love him, because I still do. But loving
>> him was going to kill me if I kept trying to find a way to make it
>> work.
>
> ---
> It is also essential that you keep emotional distance from
> narcissists. They're pretty good at maintaining a conventional persona
> in superficial associations with people who mean absolutely nothing to
> them, and they'll flatter the hell out of you if you have something
> they can use or if, for some reason, they perceive you as an authority
> figure. That is, as long as they think you don't count or they're
> afraid of you, they'll treat you well enough that you may mistake it
> for love. But, as soon as you try to get close to them, they'll say
> that you are too demanding -- and, if you ever say "I love you,"
> they'll presume that you belong to them as a possession or an
> appendage, and treat you very very badly right away. The abrupt change
> from decent treatment to outright abuse is very shocking and
> bewildering, and it's so contrary to normal experience that I was
> plenty old before I realized that it was actually my expression of
> affection that triggered the narcissists' nasty reactions. Once they
> know you are emotionally attached to them, they expect to be able to
> use you like an appliance and shove you around like a piece of
> furniture. If you object, then they'll say that obviously you don't
> really love them or else you'd let them do whatever they want with
> you. If you should be so uppity as to express a mind and heart of your
> own, then they will cut you off -- just like that, sometimes trashing
> you and all your friends on the way out the door.
> ---
> http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/howto.html

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