Amen. BIG time GET A LAWYER
And don't be talking to anyone until you do. Anything you say to anyone can
come back to kick you in the ass. Start writing down EVERYTHING. You may
want to start looking for a good computer person yourself. Someone that can
do a forensic test for you.
Get a company that specializes in this kind of thing, not some friend of a
friend that thinks he is a geek. This is high tech work and they have to
testify in court as to what they found and how they found it.
If you need some names contact me by email and I'll send you or you att some
good ones.
Read the post form Chris B. again and again and again.

Fix email addy b4 using
infospySPAM REMOVE@CHARTER.net

"Chris B." <csbird1@-nospam-thanks-rogers.com> wrote in message
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> <snip>
>
> #1 Stop posting any of this to Usenet.
>
> #2 Get a lawyer.
>
> http://www.lsuc.on.ca/public/lawyers_finding_en.jsp
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> --
> Chris Bird