I am not a plyer or in that kinda stuff but I never had much problem with that Gizmo. Perhaps you were voicing your own issues? Hehe...
It is not about getting a girl but it is making her hold on to you. I might come off as a crazy, silly, out of control freak but in reality......I am indeed all that but I also enjoy emotional bonding with a girl, not just doing it if you know what I mean. Heck most of the time, I prefer cuddling, kissing, getting drunk and having a pillow fight, running nekkid on the beach at night with my loved one while a few dogs chase us....all these could be very romantic for me....
.but I do have a limit though, for example, I would never take my trashy-dressing date to a cemetery in the middle of the night and hang around till a bear comes looking for food! 