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[Dustin Cook]

"Jenn" <me@nowhere.whocareswhatthisemailisanyway> wrote in
news:hqi50u$5qj$1@news.eternal-september.org:

> "Peter Foldes" <okf22@hotmail.com> wrote in message
> news:hqi3dg$8pi$1@speranza.aioe.org...
>> Jenn
>>
>> Question. Why is BD hiding behind you.
>
> He's a grown man and has no need to hide behind me or anyone else. I
> don't defend him, in case you haven't noticed... I do post what I know
> to be true as far as when I see you or others make statements about
> him or his family that are incorrect.
>
>> He is not posting here and he is watching the whole thread. Is he
>> afraid to stand up for himself and is letting a female do the raking
>> for him?
>
>
> Dave is off on his boat painting and cleaning it up for his summer
> boating adventures. He took his laptop with him for when he gets a
> break off and on from working on it. I've seen him online a few times
> since he went, but not for long and not often.

He's active enough to continue threads in the alt.politics newsgroup. I
don't believe for one second that he doesn't know what he's doing or that
he doesn't know how much of an arsehole he's become. His innuendo
comments don't fly with me. I don't have respect for him or anyone who
thinks highly of him, but that's just me. Guilt by association, I'm sure
you know the concept.




--
"Hrrngh! Someday I'm going to hurl this...er...roll this...hrrngh.. nudge
this boulder right down a cliff." - Goblin Warrior

[Jenn]

"Dustin Cook" <bughunter.dustin@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:Xns9D5F9A2AE5FC1HHI2948AJD832@69.16.185.247.. .
> "Jenn" <me@nowhere.whocareswhatthisemailisanyway> wrote in
> news:hqi50u$5qj$1@news.eternal-september.org:
>
>> "Peter Foldes" <okf22@hotmail.com> wrote in message
>> news:hqi3dg$8pi$1@speranza.aioe.org...
>>> Jenn
>>>
>>> Question. Why is BD hiding behind you.
>>
>> He's a grown man and has no need to hide behind me or anyone else. I
>> don't defend him, in case you haven't noticed... I do post what I know
>> to be true as far as when I see you or others make statements about
>> him or his family that are incorrect.
>>
>>> He is not posting here and he is watching the whole thread. Is he
>>> afraid to stand up for himself and is letting a female do the raking
>>> for him?
>>
>>
>> Dave is off on his boat painting and cleaning it up for his summer
>> boating adventures. He took his laptop with him for when he gets a
>> break off and on from working on it. I've seen him online a few times
>> since he went, but not for long and not often.


> He's active enough to continue threads in the alt.politics newsgroup.

Like I said.. I've seen him pop online a few times, but not very long and
not alot. He IS in the UK and I'm in Oklahoma so even at best I don't see
him online alot except when it's late at night his time zone.

> I
> don't believe for one second that he doesn't know what he's doing or that
> he doesn't know how much of an arsehole he's become.

Hey... the way I see it is that men are good at being @#$#holes anyway.. so
it's normal as far as I can tell, and you might think I'm joking, but I'm
not! LOL You men just have a different way of communicating and being an
@#$#hole is part of it when it comes to knocking heads with other men.

> His innuendo
> comments don't fly with me.

Perhaps, if you didn't allow what he said to get you upset and look at it
from a different perspective? Maybe that would help .......

> I don't have respect for him or anyone who
> thinks highly of him, but that's just me. Guilt by association, I'm sure
> you know the concept.

Would you want people to diss friends of yours simply because those friends
thought highly of you? I'm sure you wouldn't, Dustin. You need to realize
that it's very unfair on your part to do that to people when you really
wouldn't want people doing that same thing to people you know and believe to
be good.

--
Jenn (from Oklahoma)
http://pqlr.org/bbs/

[Dustin Cook]

"Jenn" <me@nowhere.whocareswhatthisemailisanyway> wrote in
news:hqicmg$4cu$1@news.eternal-september.org:

> "Dustin Cook" <bughunter.dustin@gmail.com> wrote in message
> news:Xns9D5F9A2AE5FC1HHI2948AJD832@69.16.185.247.. .
>> "Jenn" <me@nowhere.whocareswhatthisemailisanyway> wrote in
>> news:hqi50u$5qj$1@news.eternal-september.org:
>>
>>> "Peter Foldes" <okf22@hotmail.com> wrote in message
>>> news:hqi3dg$8pi$1@speranza.aioe.org...
>>>> Jenn
>>>>
>>>> Question. Why is BD hiding behind you.
>>>
>>> He's a grown man and has no need to hide behind me or anyone else.
>>> I don't defend him, in case you haven't noticed... I do post what I
>>> know to be true as far as when I see you or others make statements
>>> about him or his family that are incorrect.
>>>
>>>> He is not posting here and he is watching the whole thread. Is he
>>>> afraid to stand up for himself and is letting a female do the
>>>> raking for him?
>>>
>>>
>>> Dave is off on his boat painting and cleaning it up for his summer
>>> boating adventures. He took his laptop with him for when he gets a
>>> break off and on from working on it. I've seen him online a few
>>> times since he went, but not for long and not often.
>
>
>> He's active enough to continue threads in the alt.politics newsgroup.
>
> Like I said.. I've seen him pop online a few times, but not very long
> and not alot. He IS in the UK and I'm in Oklahoma so even at best I
> don't see him online alot except when it's late at night his time
> zone.

Well, he started a fresh thread in this newsgroup; quoting me, again.
Making innuendo remarks about malwarebytes and myself.

>> I
>> don't believe for one second that he doesn't know what he's doing or
>> that he doesn't know how much of an arsehole he's become.
>
> Hey... the way I see it is that men are good at being @#$#holes
> anyway.. so it's normal as far as I can tell, and you might think I'm
> joking, but I'm not! LOL You men just have a different way of
> communicating and being an @#$#hole is part of it when it comes to
> knocking heads with other men.

It's normal to lie and mislead individuals? It's not what I consider to
be normal.

It's not a different way of communicating, the guy is outright lieing on
me.

> Perhaps, if you didn't allow what he said to get you upset and look at
> it from a different perspective? Maybe that would help .......

Easier said than done. His comments are borderline libel towards
malwarebytes. I don't see what other perspective you think I should be
looking at it from. I read his post, he's implying that malwarebytes
and/or myself are bad people and shouldn't be trusted.

I personally don't appreciate someone trying to slander my good name.

>> I don't have respect for him or anyone who
>> thinks highly of him, but that's just me. Guilt by association, I'm
>> sure you know the concept.
>
> Would you want people to diss friends of yours simply because those
> friends thought highly of you? I'm sure you wouldn't, Dustin. You
> need to realize that it's very unfair on your part to do that to
> people when you really wouldn't want people doing that same thing to
> people you know and believe to be good.

I give up Jenn. As far as you seem to be concerned, poor BD isn't doing
anything and I'm just picking on him. I get it. I'm done, thanks.





--
"Hrrngh! Someday I'm going to hurl this...er...roll this...hrrngh.. nudge
this boulder right down a cliff." - Goblin Warrior

[Jenn]

"Dustin Cook" <bughunter.dustin@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:Xns9D5FA4A795602HHI2948AJD832@69.16.185.247.. .
> "Jenn" <me@nowhere.whocareswhatthisemailisanyway> wrote in
>>
>>> He's active enough to continue threads in the alt.politics newsgroup.
>>
>> Like I said.. I've seen him pop online a few times, but not very long
>> and not alot. He IS in the UK and I'm in Oklahoma so even at best I
>> don't see him online alot except when it's late at night his time
>> zone.
>
> Well, he started a fresh thread in this newsgroup; quoting me, again.
> Making innuendo remarks about malwarebytes and myself.

Yeah ... I know ....

>>> I
>>> don't believe for one second that he doesn't know what he's doing or
>>> that he doesn't know how much of an arsehole he's become.
>>
>> Hey... the way I see it is that men are good at being @#$#holes
>> anyway.. so it's normal as far as I can tell, and you might think I'm
>> joking, but I'm not! LOL You men just have a different way of
>> communicating and being an @#$#hole is part of it when it comes to
>> knocking heads with other men.


> It's normal to lie and mislead individuals? It's not what I consider to
> be normal.

That's not what I said... I said it's normal when men are @@#@holes to each
other.

>> Perhaps, if you didn't allow what he said to get you upset and look at
>> it from a different perspective? Maybe that would help .......


> Easier said than done. His comments are borderline libel towards
> malwarebytes. I don't see what other perspective you think I should be
> looking at it from. I read his post, he's implying that malwarebytes
> and/or myself are bad people and shouldn't be trusted.

All I can say is that even you acknowledge that it's borderline. I've known
people all my life who just flat out would smack you right up side the face
verbally and then threaten to do it physically, too. When people sit on the
borderline, imo, it means they aren't sure what side of the fence they
should be on and often times people will test the waters on both sides to
help them make up their minds based on the responses they get. That usually
means there's going to be some flack flying in all directions until that
fence sitter gets it figure out one way or another. I'm not saying it's
right or it's wrong.. I'm just saying that's how some people deal with
things they aren't sure of.

>> Would you want people to diss friends of yours simply because those
>> friends thought highly of you? I'm sure you wouldn't, Dustin. You
>> need to realize that it's very unfair on your part to do that to
>> people when you really wouldn't want people doing that same thing to
>> people you know and believe to be good.


> I give up Jenn. As far as you seem to be concerned, poor BD isn't doing
> anything and I'm just picking on him. I get it. I'm done, thanks.

No.. I never said he wasn't doing anything wrong. I usually tell him myself
if I think he's doing something wrong, too. He'll tell you! LOL

What I'm saying is how we choose to respond to how people poke us can make a
big difference in either ending up in a knock down drag out fight vs. a
discussion.


--
Jenn (from Oklahoma)
http://pqlr.org/bbs/